Equilibrium???

Wins and losses do not exist without each other. Separate, they are just lucrative ideals the blind eyes of society force us to see and they evoke evil emotion and unhealthy competitiveness in the world, causing things like war. The universe was made in equilibrium, so in reality, no one can lose without winning and no one can win without losing. Every loss is a gain and vice-versa. Therefore after competition, no one should be happy and no one should be sad; everyone should just be satisfied. Emotions are what will destroy us, yet they are also what make us what we are. So if human emotions were to reach a state of equilibrium, would that really be paradise?